WHY DO INFIDELITIES OCCUR? DISCOVER HOW TO IDENTIFY AND INFIDELITY

There are many reasons why infidelity occurs. In many cases, there are deficits in one of the spouses that are not covered by the other spouse. Such as low self - esteem, depression, lack of sexual stimulation, affection, sharing hobbies together, emotional distancing, lack of understanding, etc. The unfaithful spouse supplies this deficiency through sexual intercourse with a third person so that their anxiety decreases.

On the other hand, the spouse betrayed after discovering the infidelity wakes up a Detectives Madrid of pain, a distrust takes hold and a feeling of permanent restlessness and restlessness.
Things rarely return to being as before infidelity within the couple.

There are many studies in Spain on infidelity in all its aspects such as flirting, cybersex and other concepts that have emerged recently facilitated by the emergence of technology.
These statistics reflect a slight position with respect to men with respect to women.
Thus the figures indicate that in men there are infidelities around 59% compared to 41% in women.
Previous studies seemed to show that the lathes were just the opposite, in favor of women infidelity, but the latest statistical data indicate otherwise.

Of course, women seem to show an increase with respect to men in the passionate sphere; Women when they are unfaithful are more passionate.
Not that it does not seem very clear about women and men is that there is an increase with respect to the marriage variable.
Not that it does not seem to be very clear is the value that as many men as women give to cybersex or flirting. Many think that this good behavior of flirting well of cybersex does not represent an infidelity visualizing it as a perfectly valid behavior within the couple.

An interesting variable in these studies is the concept of OPPORTUNISM. There seems to be a clear superiority in men when there is an opportunity to be unfaithful, but women seem to resist more, so 2/3 of women resist infidelity while 2/3 of men succumb.
Studies on infidelity in Spain reveal a curious fact. A feeling of revenge seems to predominate in men when it comes to infidelity because of the feeling of contempt that this person feels of being a victim on the part of the woman, while on the part of the woman there seems to be a feeling of sadness for feeling undervalued by part of the male.

Modern statistics on infidelity show that there is greater criticism about infidelity in young couples than in middle-aged couples.
It also seems to point out a clear difference in one's feelings about an infidelity about their feelings. Men seem to bother more than their spouses have sex with other men, while women seem to bother more than men fall in love.
To conclude we can clearly see a difference on the part of sex on the vision of infidelity in all its aspects.

When talking about the reasons for infidelity, our experience as well as different studies in published universities, we can say that the reasons for infidelity are different according to man or woman
In man the most important factors are flirting, passion , ignorance, flow, different age crises, boredom, envy, being exploited, their profession, fashion and trauma.

Fashion seems to reflect that it is modern to be unfaithful, it is a symbol of social inclusion. Sometimes traumas with other couples cause an infidelity to be committed by revenge and thus a feeling of well-being is born. Work as we have mentioned, can be an important factor. There are many professions that due to the most imperative nature of contact with women there is a high rate of infidelities, as an example medical and pharmaceutical professions, dressmakers, decorators, window dressers, etc. The woman is seven more attracted to this group for the time they stay together and in the end, they start with simple flirting, trust, etc.until leading to a sexual relationship. On the element of “exploited” that we mentioned earlier, many men take advantage of single women, women who are going through certain crises and make them feel loved by a false affection. On the envied element, many men see friends and partners with unofficial relationships, see how they presume them in public and how they boast, in this position, the man feels unwell for not being so supposedly happy for not having those moments of pleasure and decides to take the leap to the dark side.

Boredom is an important element, when there is no energy in the relationship, lack of motivation that makes the man look for an incentive outside. The different crises that a man is going through, like the crisis of the 40s or 50s, make them try to get the most out of this period by consolidating their masculinity. Many men believe that passion is a necessary element to be happy, so when they stop experiencing it they will look for it eagerly. Men seem to get carried away more than women thinking they have control and this leads to infidelity. Sometimes the ignorance of man is an element since many presume after being caught infraganti that they were not aware of it. Finally, flirting is very typical in men, it seems to be a behavior they love, and whenever they have the opportunity they carry it out.

Now let's talk about the reasons that lead a woman to commit an act of infidelity. We can say sharply that there has been an increase in infidelity in recent years by women compared to 10 or 15 years ago.
Women now seem to love flirting like men, socially this behavior is beginning to be well seen. Also, many say they don't realize what has happened, it just happened quickly without looking or wanting it and they have not been aware of it. Sometimes the leisure element is important, they get bored on a day-to-day basis and decide to fill your leisure time. Another interesting factor that seems to be revenge, is a way to make them pay their contempt.

The weak character of some seems to point to this direction also because of their lack of personality. Other women are undecided and this indecision makes them have a sexual relationship. Emotional instability sometimes plays a big role in these deceptions, including fashion, since it seems that today it is "Cool" to have lovers among women. Compassion seems to be another element. Many women are ambitious and as such this ambition makes them be with different men.

In women there are also age crises, in them something seems to occur earlier than in men, and to strengthen and feel desired they have sex with other men. Sometimes compassion takes possession of many women who, with sorrow, certain men sleep with them. The loneliness of the couple is usually an element also trigger. To end the affinity that many women feel for certain men is usually also a trigger for infidelity.